AdORation - 1 (chemistry)

All alkalies are bases but not all bases are alkali. (7th std chemistry)

Your life partner.. Must be your best friend.. But best friend dhan life partner ah varanumnu ila.

Instant awesomeness you feel when someone talks about their love story, where u say (aww, oww) open mouth words...Then there comes a feel  & inner questions , which pops out often while u listen to songs, see some post, when you see some lovers and finally when u see some random girl/guy. Those feelings ? Questions?

Who is gonna answer those???

love-u

“love”

I have always pondered upon how strange it was that a bond called ‘love’ can connect two people in such a way that they are inseparable no matter what the circumstances may be. LOVE is a very misunderstood word often confused with infatuation and lust. True Love is when you accept your partner for whatever they are – warts, farts and all. One must understand that Love is unconditional and without any expectations.

Love when?

Love develops when you live with a person for quite a long period of time, when he/she cares for you in tough times of your life, when he/she stands beside you in your most difficult moments. That is true love which your parents have grown and they are still together.

Is It Possible?

Most imp and difficult thing in order to achieve true love is that a couple must make up in their mind in the very beginning that they are in it for the long haul and completely rule out the breakup option.

So many couples even the married ones, easily ponder and discuss the breakup option as soon as they hit the rough patch. That’s just stupid – I mean did your parents ditch? And breakup? With you whenever you gave them a hard time? People need to learn to stick through ugly days.

Also another imp rule – there is NO such thing as a BEST FRIEND of the opposite sex as especially after marriage. Your spouse is your best friend and if you feel the need to have another member of the opposite sex as a best friend then something is seriously wrong with you and your relationship.

The Above point is sincerely copied. Samandhame iladhadhu. But Still A POINT to be Noted.

Marriage?

Marry your best friend in the first place, otherwise maintain a distance and don’t torture and disrespect your spouse.

“”Best friend ah dhan kalyanam pannanum na naatla friendhsip ku value eh irukadhu””  - pusanika

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along…..

JULY Morning, They Met, , , , , , December They were in love, , , , , , , , all periods to be filled soon!


Until Then Aurevoir!!

The Power of Detachment – An act of Extraordinary Love

Devotion is the detachment from everything else except the beloved. It emanates from the depth of the heart and expects nothing but love.

Extraordinary Love is the ability to love for the sake of love without expecting anything in return. It is the expression of love with utmost devotion towards the people in our lives. It is the practical expression of divinity that exists in each one of us as we engage in life.

Contrary to the popular meaning associated with love that deals with feelings, emotions and body sensations, I propose a different kind of love called Extraordinary Love. Extraordinary Love which is higher awareness, a state of consciousness has its foundation in unconditional love with devotion. It provides an ability to shield oneself from the chains of pain, misery and suffering and to create a state of joy, freedom and peace of mind.

The artist who engages the world with this kind of love is an extraordinary lover. An extraordinary lover exhibits qualities of humility, compassion and honor. The mind of an extraordinary lover is strong and deep like that of an ocean. He exhibits mental toughness with single-minded focus to be present wherever he is. He lets go of the past while bringing nothing but a listening for greatness and commitment to a conversation.


The secret to being an extraordinary lover is mastering the art of detachment. It is important to understand that detachment is not disengagement; it is not about letting go of our responsibility towards our loved ones or towards the society we live in. It is rather a conscious engagement without attachment to the outcome or to the people we come in contact with throughout our lives. It is doing our best in every moment and doing every little thing with so much love that we don’t want to do any other way anymore.

"""All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages.
~ William Shakespeare""""

Consider that the world is a grand stage of actors and actresses who are playing a part in a cosmic play of which our Creator is the director. This cosmic play is a result of karmic transactions that keeps the cycle of life and death into existence. We are simply brought into contact with people with whom we need to complete our karmic transactions and then we go our individual ways. We are entitled to our actions and not to the fruit of our labor. As long as we understand that every person we come in contact with is a role assigned to us by the director then there is clarity in our way of being. The moment we begin to forget that we are merely an actor playing a part and begin to attach ourselves to the roles, and the other players in the act we tend to suffer as every play has a definite beginning and an end. Attachment is therefore the root of pain. This pain is caused due to a thwarted intention, an unmet expectation or undelivered communication.

We continue to suffer and mourn over a role in a play that was long over, instead of letting go and adapting ourselves to a new role that comes our way. Another analogy is that of travelers on a journey using a public transportation system i.e. subway – where we meet people as we go about our daily lives. There is a small window on the subway that we get to interact with these fellow travelers as we disembark at our respective stations. As long as we are grounded in the context of passing through in this world we can remain detached and continue on our journey with freedom, joy and peace of mind. It is therefore the art of remaining devoted to our journey with complete surrender to the divine will, knowing all the while that it is all a cosmic play. Such is the expression of an extraordinary lover.
Extraordinary Love is an incomparable source of happiness for both the giver and the receiver of this divine gift. It is the life and spirit of all actions. No action can be beneficial without extraordinary love. Just as two things cannot exist in the same place at the same time, similarly attachment and extraordinary love cannot exist together. Extraordinary Love demands complete surrender, and causes one to be happy in its expression. It is the art of giving unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. It is following the divine direction of our Creator.

The nectar of extraordinary love is a sweet elixir of life. However it is not an easy path, and requires courage. Those who walk this path open their hearts to experiencing the ecstasy of love by letting go of the evil propensities of the EGO and adopt humility. It requires a fearless one to embark on this journey. As an extraordinary lover one makes a conscious choice to lead a life of surrender to the path of love. Only when one is willing and able to play the role as being directed by the Creator on this journey can one be ready to tread this garden of love, for then alone they can taste the elixir of extraordinary love. It is an extraordinary work of sacrifice and surrender to the Creator’s will. The influence of extraordinary love is unique; it provides access to peace, joy and fulfillment.

Yosichi Sutadhuu!!! Love SUDUM!! :P

Until Then!

Love Love!!

"AVA" (FIRST)

Now as I mentioned earlier about AVA's in the previous blog, i would like to talk about them!! Fundamentally, basically, theoretically known as crush or love or like, everything same for me!! :P

So now like time travel, you have to just imagine Vishal in his small age, like 3rd grade and 4th grade! Vishal used to be the topper of all the annual exams,mid term exams & in academics! I still have the photos, medals and certificates! Will Upload Them later :D

 So, there was a girl named SWATHY. I know this girl from 3rd grade! She is also a nerd just like me!
**ada that time! pleases nambunga! ippo naan nerd nu sona kuda nambathinga! please!** We used to be the class representatives, policing the class, maintaining PINDROP silence, on the non-availability of a teacher!!

So I *ahem* like her! One day we both were minding the class in ,same class, so i went near her, asked her – “What do you want to be?” & she replied – “An IAS officer or a Doctor!” Then I asked her, “Won’t you ask me?” and then she asked. I answered – “I’ll marry You”  **yeah 4^th grade, I know! :P** Both of us blushed & that was the first sign of blah blah!!****

Once I got 1st rank in the half yearly, her parents called my home, and they said that she is crying the whole day, and dint eat anything because, I secured her favourite rank! At that moment, I felt something strange! So, i thought to give up & from then on I just  didn’t go near that so-called 1^st rank! Her tears changed me & I decided that I will just  secure some safe marks to pass the subject, NOT FAIL! Things changed just for her!!

VTV dialogue! – “Describe her, Karthik?”

Swathi is tall, wears specs & ‘good’ eyes! Talkative, Telugu speaking girl & topper, my mom's favorite one! We shared lunch! **Nothing else!** I just gave up my ranks for her! Somewhere around the world, she will be securing more marks than me!! Then, my father found his job in Chennai, so we had to transfer from Ambur (father's hometown)So, this during the starting of 5^th grade & we were out of town! At that time, SWATHI crossed me saying – “BYE”, but she didn’t know that I was leaving the school that year! And it was the same with me, it all happened in a day! I presented her a ring on her b'day, a simple one! **Stole it from my sister!!** Her b'day is on December 19th & I still remember that & every year on that day I share chocolates with my classmates! My b'day is on December 6th!! I still remember her street address , her phone number and then her father’s name!! :D also Her Birth Sign :D

That’s about my first AVA!  **ava venum dot... ** My wishes to her! I dont want my sister or any of my family member to read this. If you already did, then please don’t tell my mom! You know who she is & her immediate reactions & questions! **Yeppaa**






Will BLOG about OTHER AVA's Soon :D

ThIs MEMORY CANT BE ERASED EASILy :D Everyone Will Have tHER Own Stories Like These, I hope this Just Cherished Ur Memories :D

Until Then Bye :D:D

My Summer Vacation (WOW)***

Okay! This time, I’ll blog as much as I can! Loads of stories started trespassing in myMind! They are not just stories, they’re Life Events – Tragic, Comic, Romantic (naana than sollikanum) ; Boring Holidays,  *AVA's!!*, Summer vacation & Kids! (Whom I always I dmire, well not the MJ way of course..) Yes, I can even blog about my AMMA, one special character I’ve met on earth (or I must say maybe she met me..) Even about  myself? Social issues? Petrol hikes? About people around me? Anything!!

However, this time I would like to talk about something interesting (well, I hope it is so for you, too..) I’ll finish with the summer vacation and then will talk about one AVA!! and then, the history of vasan!! :P sounds weird right? :P ya okay! *start music!!*

Finished my second semester, just chilling out my time with my Desktop , DSLR and Tab! All I fear about is THE RESULTS! My terrific performances during this semester will be reflected soon, by my father’s actions after the results - waiting for it! Anyways, the flow of beautiful words, that ‘melancholy strain’ from my mom’s side will be over –‘toning’!

**Saavu sangu only!! ooooô **Nevertheless, heard that results will be out only when we go back to our college as seniors – Will walk in with pride, and come out with tears & friends asking for treat ( no matter, what happens!)

Sangu - Conch

         So yeah! Let’s continue! Fine I’m worried! Dr.Kalam couldn't be the President.  He
stepped out, because all the leading parties supported Pranab! Prathiba Patil just wasted the government’s money, as we all know! She doesn’t deserve that place again! I loved Kalam when we was with youngsters, all his inspirational, firing speeches and books! Developed country by 2020! his quote! Okay! Enough of the Kalam thingy!

Pranab

Kalam

I wanted to go abroad this vacation, which remained as a dream due to the insufficient documents provided - No license or 6 month bank statement! **vada pochu!!** Then, I badly wanted to go to Kerala - God's own country! **No money, No Honey!** 

Kerala Boat House

My Friend Narendhiren Visited KERALA last Weekend, He Clicked Some Amazing Pics

Link : https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.373090486086719.82522.230506143678488&type=1

So the BORING summer holidays started with a trip to Mahabalipuram (known as one of the world heritage site), re-known for the art of sculpture, the beach and some famous temples out there!! Went with cousins all kids, all were less than 12 years old, three sisters above 15! Anyway I’m the eldest! Ah! That doesn’t matter here, in the hot scorching Summer Sun!

 
 Went there & clicking pictures! Sun was my ‘hot’ companion, one cloud always, to play with the settings on my DSLR - from Sunrise to Sunset! Most of the pictures were Silhouettes & I love em! Then, clicked some random babies ,they were cute and one named ADITI, the cutest of all! ^_^

CHECK THIS LINK FOR ALL  HOT* PICS

https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.356076027788165.79322.23050614367
8488&type=3

Then it was the pose by goats, which were searching for their love (My perspective, of
course!) & it formed form beautiful scenery!And then some monkeys! These monkeys didn’t hurt, they just posed! :D Fine! I don't speak as much my as my photos speak! I make them speak :P

***overah iruka??? :P arasiyala idhelam sagajam! ***

Later, cute little tiny future youths were playing with a bubble blower & so just got the
sun in the bubble. Also, made them stand with their hands held together in a row ,at the backdrop of a beautiful sunset! <3

MAHABALIPURAM was totally romantic & I would recommend everyone to visit that beautiful place! I didn't  got to the beach, so nothing much about it!! People who love arts, structures, to spend their time with blah blah ones can have a gala time :P Everything will be closed after 6.30pm! :P

And, about other trips! EA, beach, Ambur & amazing Yelagiri & also memorable train
trip, I will blog them soon! **coming soon :P**

By Next WEEK I will Post About My First AVA :D COMING SOON****

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Follow ME     # https://twitter.com/#!/vishalvasan6

UNTIL Then Bye :D:D !! (WOW) !! :P                                                 
                       

Billa 2 Teaser (Ajith-THALA)

Hats of to chakri sir, yuvan BGM is ultimate , r d rajshekar camera work is stunning n finally my GOD no words to praise him thala is mind blowing ..

ENNODA VALKAi’LA … OVERU NAALUM … OVERU NiMiSHAM’UM … YEN OVER’U NODiYAYUM … NANEY SETHiKiNATHU DA ! ” – DAViD BiLLA !
Thala Count down start ……………

Guys,
Watch Billa 2007 again…u will note one thing during the confrontation between prabhu and our thala….
Very interesting….we completely ignore this one then…But it came to limelight now…..

Waiting FoR the Movie :D

For Thala ! Until Then Bye :D:D

Enna Vazhka Da Idhu ??

I Entered College (SRM university) with 1007 marks. It was Completely different from school life :(.
I wore A light pink stripped formals on my first day of college.
First day I missed My college Bus (AC) yeah coming back to the formal thingy,according to me I looked like a perfect gentlemen (ha-ha) but I soon found out that I am not one ,when I entered the T.P Ganeshan Auditorium ( Biggest One In south Asia ).New Faces,good looking girls- Totally New wind.

He started teasing the girls who were sitting innext to us & they gave a weird look.He started To pester me ( Macha ava enaku venum da ) for food . He was My classmate during my school days (ZION Matriculation ) named NILAVAZHAGAN(Moon Beauty). Now He is doing His Aerospace Engineering in this college. He Successfully claimed 4 Arrears including English course in his first semester.

Good Boy :)

The Director,President,staffs & other high ranked people were present. They were giving DeeP description about or college ! .We Were all "LISTENING" to them.They were Sooooo Melodramatic the songs on our headphones I mean.

headphones

I have lots to talk about my College ! :P....................Right Next To Me is Aravind ( Avana Pathi SOlren Apurama )

What About love ??
Just A four letter word,without which world can't run! :P
I do have "lot" to blog on this ! - "LOVE Experience" ! - ( ENaku ava Venum Dot )

Will talk about 'AVA(S)' soon !

FAmily ??
No Comments

Will Continue Alll the discontinued ones Soon :P

Until then Bye :D

My First Blog

The small thought of blogging came into My mind today (20/03/2012 at 1AM) which came into power by the continuous support of My Material science sir who is able & willing to put us to sleep during his class! :P:P

Heights Of Vettiness made me start this !

And yeah I'm Vishal :) You will Know More About Me Soon !

What I Do ??
I'm Doing My B.tech Bio-Technology degree In SRM University !!!

I Do Own A Page Vasan Photography , yeah I love PHOTOGRAPHy ! - Good Hobby & easy to bunk classes being a photographer !!

P.S. I know That This Was boring, but hey, this is my first ever blog & you don't really know what to write :P

Will continue Later,Until then bye :)